Are You Holding a Wounded Man-Child?
I had a dream for a client who said she wants to be rid of heartache from her ex. She’s been thinking of him a lot lately. There have been a lot of circumstances and memories coming to the surface right now for humans to grieve. It makes sense that this is showing up...
Breaking an Energetic Contract with an Ex
I had a client who was having pain under her right eye. She would feel better if she was distracted, but when she was alone with herself, it would get her attention. When I asked if there was something we could do energetically, there was a resounding yes. The first...
Can You Be Friends with an Ex?
When this question comes up in sessions, there are a few factors that need consideration. I want to share with you some questions that will help determine if being friends with an ex would be right for you. If there are children involved, it can be difficult to be...
When You Feel Like Giving Up on Love
When I was on a date with a guy in San Diego, I remember we talked about our past relationships. He said, “Wow! You don’t seem jaded like the majority of women I’ve met.” I remember telling him that I’ve had thoughts of giving up all the time. I choose to deal with...
How to Detach from Someone You Love
I was working with a client who is full of light, knowledge and healthy living practices. She has been going through a break up and can’t seem to let go of her ex after he called her saying he would do things differently. Now she has hopes of trying again with him...
Changing Your Vibration
I had a dream where there were a whole bunch of people on stage. One man was looking around not understand where he was and why everyone was on stage. He was about to leave. Just then, some people busted out in a tune and they were each singing their part and all of...
Can Heartache Cause Extreme Physical Symptoms?
Can Heartache Cause Extreme Physical Problems? I had a client interested in distance Reiki who was in a panicked state due to her inability to eat solid foods for over two months. Leading up to this, she had trouble with heartburn and stomach troubles. She had...
Healing from Your Past
I had a dream of three exes sitting behind me in a theater. I felt they were watching me and judging me and the way I was living my life. I wanted them to stop looking at me and disappear. We can hold regrets and unprocessed emotions from our past deep in our...
Are You or Your Partner Emotionally Stunted?
Have you ever been with someone who says they want to be in a relationship and then operates at a teenage level? Have you been this person? This person is acting about half their age or less. You are with this person and assume they will act the maturity level of...
Are You or Your Partner Emotionally Stunted?
Have you ever been with someone who says they want to be in a relationship and then operates at a teenage level? Have you been this person? This person is acting about half their age or less. You are with this person and assume they will act the maturity level of...
Help for Being Quick to React
Help for Being Quick to React I had mentioned in previous blogs that many spouses have been showing up needing help with their partner. 2020 and now 2021 has brought a slew of new dynamics to deal with in romantic relationships. Tempers be a flying! Have you ever been...
Does Your Relationship Need Cleansing?
Last year and this year presented couples with new challenges due to changes in our world. This can bring fatigue and short tempers, which leads to arguments and hurt feelings in relationships. Thank goodness there is a way to help clean these things up energetically...
Feeling Cursed in Love?
I had a dream for a client where everyone was about to run a race. They were joyously putting their shoes on and chatting away. My client didn’t want to run this race at all. She said it sounded like torture. She had to go to the bathroom anyway and took so long that...
What to do When your Partner is Suffering
You are an upbeat, positive person with some good practices of your own. You take responsibility for your life and do your best to take care of yourself. You may even be a healer or sensitive type. What do you do if your partner is suffering? If you are someone who...
Three Tips for Difficult Conversations
This year has been a trying time for so many couples I’ve spoken with. Things have changed in the dynamics of living situations, work situations, school and so on. When you’re going through stress and are fatigued, sensitive, it can be easy to show up as our worst...
Can Your Body Tell You What Needs Healing in Your Heart?
You have an physical ailment and think I need to fix this with a physical remedy. This is not always the case. What if there is a deeper healing causing the ailment to get your attention? Our bodies are such amazing messengers of what needs healing. I had a client who...
Are Old Beliefs Getting in the Way of Love?
I have a client who has been searching for her romantic partner. She’s been having such a hard time because she meets someone, is interested, and they leave. She met a man who was making her feel unsafe in her body, so she actually left. She met a man who was anxious...
Should I Leave Him?
I get this question A LOT. I had a dream for a client who’s thinking of ending her two-year relationship. The dream I had for her was where I was in an old fashioned home, which usually symbolizes a childhood home, therefore a childhood wound. She was making copies...
Want Your Radiance Back?
I have a friend who always reminds herself of this, "When my happiness is determined by what others do, I have a problem." This was huge for me when healing from a break up. When we spend most of our time caring for and focusing our attention outward, we lack...
6 Steps for Going Inward
With all that’s been going on in the world, you may have gotten a little nudge to go inward. I’m going to share my process and steps with you if you’ve been wanting to do this work of the Spiritual Warrior. When I moved back to California in April, I knew I needed to...
What Old Ways Are No Longer Working?
Have you ever felt like you just can’t get romantic relationships right? You find yourself in situations where you pick a partner that seems like the perfect partner on paper, but once you get into the relationship, you discover they aren’t as present or authentic as...
Song Lyrics in Dreams
Right now we have several planets that have gone retrograde so it’s beneficial to reflect and review, especially with the time we’ve been given right now during quarantine. I’m reviewing everything, especially love. I heard a song this morning upon waking. It was from...
Healing from a Breakup
What is the lesson?
YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL
I will start off by saying that healers have their own work to do. I had a dream there was a giant male being who looked into my eyes and said, “You are beautiful.” I felt it with all my being that he meant it and it felt so so good. When I awoke, I had a feeling that...
Help for Relationships
My client was at her wits end because she and her husband were having things come between them. At first it started as arguments and him slowly pulling away. She tried to control the situation by trying to demand that they spend time together. That didn’t work. He...
Broken Record in Love
I was working with a woman who had come up against a stubborn back injury. Nothing she was doing was helping her feel better. What I know energetically that weakens the physical back is a lack of feeling supported in life, over-giving and an unwillingness to receive....
Needing Attention from your Partner?
A client was telling me that she thinks her husband stopped loving her. She said he provides everything for her, tells her he loves her, hugs her and kisses her goodbye in the morning and evening and sometimes during the day. He spends time with her and calls her...
Help for Overwhelm
I had a dream for a client who was struggling with feeling her life was out of her control. The first dream showed me a yard where a bunch of chipmunks were playing. A cat came up and bit one on the spine, stunning the chipmunk. I woke up with a jolt as if I were...
Addicted to Love?
A woman I worked with was struggling with something her boyfriend said to her. After watching a show where a man was struggling with addiction to drugs, she had asked him what he was addicted to. He said he didn’t know what he was addicted to. She asked him what he...
Problems in Relationships
I remember a mentor saying Happily Ever After is a fantasy. While I understand what she was saying about the fantasy of meeting your Prince Charming and riding into the sunset being happy forever not being realistic, I do believe you can have Your Happily Ever After....
Have You Ever Felt Abandoned?
What if feeling abandoned is something in us that is ready to heal? So many people have expressed this feeling to me lately. A friend felt like her boyfriend abandoned her when he didn’t invite her to a trip with his family. Another friend felt abandoned when his...
Anger in Love
What if anger could be a gift?
Ex-Lovers in Dreams
Have you ever had a dream of being with an ex or seeing one in a dream? You think, "Wait! No! I'm not with this person anymore and I don't want to be with this person. Why am I dreaming about him/her?" Depending on how the relationship was terminated, it can be...
Miscommunication in Love
Have you ever felt like you said something and your partner completely missed the point of what you said? It’s always helpful to remember that both partners are listening through a filter of their perceptions based on experiences, any unhealed wounding and conclusions...
Strengthening the Throat Chakra
The theme for the past couple of weeks has been to speak up even when you don’t want to. Clients have been allowing boundaries to be crossed again and again and it's taking a toll on their nervous system. Over the past few months I’ve been having recurring dreams...
Karma Clearing
I had a dream where a Hispanic woman asked me in a judgmental manner, “Do you have husbands all over the states? Are you going to do to him (meaning my boyfriend) what you did to your last one?” I awoke feeling slimed and had heavy energy in my field that I knew...
Alone Time
I remember becoming upset when my now ex husband wanted his twin brother to move in with us shortly after we married. The hurt that arose the moment he requested this came from the thought that he doesn’t want to live with just me. I had made up beliefs that he didn’t...
Release Old Heavy Baggage
Have you ever wished you could just feel happy when you’re feeling off? You distract yourself from facing your inner demons. It’s a form of resistance. Whether I decide to share this with you or not, and if you’re reading this, I was brave enough to share, I...
Can the Changing of the Seasons Mess with Your Love Life?
It’s been quite windy this week and the temperatures have dropped dramatically where I live in Michigan. It’s my first time living in a place that’s not San Diego and the difference in temperature is making itself known. The wind blowing actually makes for a lot of...
Do You Love Him More than He Loves You?
Have you ever had the thought that you love your partner more that he loves you? Have you ever been frustrated that you need more affection than your partner? I was frustrated because I crave my partner’s touch so much that I feel like I need more affection than him,...
Can Love Keep Fear at Bay?
Have you ever jumped all in in love and then later sabotaged the relationship? It’s been a roller coaster entry shortly after diving into the deep end with my boyfriend. My mom said, “Follow your heart, but keep your head on.” I didn’t know what she meant by that and...
Re-Live Love
A colleague of mine asked if I would answer some questions for her on non-verbal behavior. I asked her if a kiss could be an example. She said yes, so I sent her this. “When I was 11 years old I met BJ, a boy who lived on my block. We became friends. I remember we...
Release the Crazies
When you head over heels for someone it can be really hard to maintain your center. All you want to do is spend time with this person. The divine feeling of being swallowed by someone has you feeling bathed in love. At some point this compulsion to spend all of your...
Can You Turn Lust into Love?
Today I saw an anonymous comment that infatuation is when you find someone absolutely perfect. Love is when you realize they aren't perfect and it doesn't really matter. I believe that when you truly get to know someone for who they are and don’t compromise your needs...
Dream Healing for Love
Almost everyday I have dreams for me, but I don’t often write about me because a woman once told me my newsletter should be inspirational and not a journal about me. I let that criticism in until I realized that as a collective consciousness healer, what I’m going...
When Spirit Calls
It’s been about four months since I’ve written due to the fact that I felt like a fraud and avoided writing about this topic for that very reason. Even though I’ve been able to help so many people with their love lives, I was unhappy and sick in my marriage no matter...
How to Detach from Unhealthy Love
I had a dream where a woman was at her ex boyfriend’s house. She was very attracted to him always wanting to touch his sexy body. This ex kept asking her to marry him and she knew she was a no, but was still in his home. All of a sudden, he told her she had to hide....
Missing an Ex
Still Thinking About an Ex? Depending on what needs to heal, an ex may show up in your mind all of a sudden and stay there until you deal with him. When one person is thinking of another, the energy is real and can connect to the other. One possibility is to ask that...